An anxious attachment style is marked by behavior that is perceived as needy, clingy, nervous and sometimes, histrionic. The more afraid you are that your partner will leave you, the more you act out to ensure it doesn’t happen. Many of my Love U clients are anxious. But what happens when the man you’re dating is the anxious one? Will you soothe his insecurities or abandon him like everyone else? Stick around to learn what to do when he’s afraid.
7 Powerful Tips for the Early Stage of Dating
SO MANY things can go wrong in the early stage of dating. That’s why – in Love U – I have an entire month of content based on the time between when you meet a guy until the time he becomes your boyfriend. This is where most people screw up. This is where most people need help. This is why I have a job. Behold, 7 tips, directly from Love U, on how to navigate that precious time before he’s your boyfriend.
10 Steps for Talking About Politics When Dating
Trigger warning. No, I don’t do trigger warnings. But today, I’m going to be talking about something controversial – something that’s been tearing up the United States slowly for 30 years. Political tribalism. It’s been a huge negative force in America. Politics has essentially turned into a religion, where otherwise normal people turn into the Hatfields and McCoys. So when is political tribalism a dealbreaker and when it can be dealt with? Let’s just say I have thoughts.
4 Simple Tips to Stop Obsessing Over Your Crush
This is the first guy you’ve liked in a long time. It’s exciting to have a crush, but you realize that you’re probably a little too obsessed with someone you barely know. While you’re still going to stalk him on social media and check your phone incessantly to see when he texts you again, you also need to do something healthy so this obsession doesn’t take over your life. In this short podcast, I’m going to give you a framework to relax, keep your perspective and stop obsessing about the new guy.
5 Questions to Ask When He’s Friends With His Ex
You discovered your boyfriend still talks to his ex. Maybe it was a social media post, maybe it was a text, or maybe he’s meeting her for dinner. The question is whether this is a big deal – and if it is – what should you do about it? My answer will surprise you – and likely piss you off. Enjoy the Love U Podcast.
9 Reasons Why Guys Don’t Commit
You’ve fallen in love with seemingly great guys who did all the right things, let you fall in love with them, and then, for some reason, wouldn’t step up to the plate to commit. Are these men all players, toxic narcissists, and monsters? Of course not. There are good reasons that guys don’t commit. Well, maybe not good reasons, but they’re real and I’d rather tell you the truth about them than to leave you in the dark.
5 Signs He Just Wants Sex
He’s hot. He’s into you. He sleeps with you. He ghosts. It’s an age-old tale – we know how it ends – and yet, this scenario plays out, over and over, every day, across the world. And it made me think: what if there were an easy way to explain to women in a few minutes why this happens and how to avoid it? Well, now there is. This is the Love U Podcast. Stick around.
Why Women in their 40’s, 50’s and 60’s Should Be Optimistic About Love
I know. It’s rough out there. You go online, and it’s a horror show. The older you get, the less attractive the men are. The older you get, the more damaged the men are. The older you get, the fewer ugly, damaged men even bother to show interest in you. Because of this, you may be tempted to give up – to conclude that dating is hopeless after a certain age. In this Love U podcast, I want to restore your sense of hope and show you why there are plenty of quality guys in the marketplace, no matter what your age.
What My Wife Doesn’t Like About Me
Fact: I’m a happily married dating coach. Fact: My wife accepts me as I am and loves me unconditionally. Fact: I have a ton of personality flaws that drive her out of her mind. Today I’m going to discuss those flaws and maybe shed light on how two reasonable people can work around irreconcilable differences.
What Do You Do With a Guy Who Won’t Stop Texting?
There’s this cute guy you met online. You’ve been texting for a week now. And you’re about ready to cut him off entirely. It’s like this guy has no life outside of texting you. 50 times a day, your phone pings. Good morning. Good night. Random photos. Sincere compliments about how much he likes you and how he can’t stop thinking about you. Yes, he’s a supertexter. So why does he do this and what do you do with him? I’ll explain it all in this Love U Podcast.